You've got to be so careful with online dating a lot of them have fake profiles on, one way they do this is they have the same IE photo of a man in but he's got lots of different names ages is one con. I really don't recommend internet dating at all! Also they sent you messages that someone has had a look at your profile please pay the members fee to see the email.... The con is you pay up and there was no messages. What I do recommend is there any social clubs in your area? Its always better to meet someone face to face because you could be anybody on the internet. Safety has to come first.