Fear of love

I always told my son he was special, and he is, most disabled people have to overcome pain and heartache on top of coping with any day to day problems relating to their disability. Tell yourself yes! you are special.

I totally agree with Bubbadogs first comment there is someone out there , you have to believe you are worthy of knowing FIRST hey your disabled they have to ACCEPT you for you just SMILE if they do not smile back that is their problem your worth knowing EVERYBODY ON HERE IS WORTH KNOWING THATS WHY I AM HERE I WANT TO GET TO KNOW OTHERS

I think that you are comparing the perception of some with the perception of others. I have never been one to think “oh this person has fallen bird complex” I know that despite the fact that I am disabled, I am funny and kind, that is why (I believe at least) people would want to be with me.

Marie1 wrote: I think that you are comparing the perception of some with the perception of others. I have never been one to think “oh this person has fallen bird complex” I know that despite the fact that I am disabled, I am funny and kind, that is why (I believe at least) people would want to be with me.

Thank you Marie for pointing out that it doesn't matter what disability you have it's what that person is like inside, I like to have fun and mess about and my husband is as daft as a brush as well and everyone says we are so suited to each other and he is my carer and able bodied. I'm the Amanda I was before I became sick and I'm proud of that!!