my name is Tom Adams ,single i have 1kid .. ...i am 42yr old...and i love to laught,going to the bar and drink socially...i am looking for my best friend,lover and the right woman for me who will not hide things from me who is ready to speak the ugly and the sweet and we can share things together...i put my past behind and i believe i will c the right woman...well i never break anyone's heart but mine has been broken many times..may be cos i am too nice or too emotional and too concerm and pamper alot...i treat my woman like egg and more like a queen but i never got the same thing back...well i love going out with friends..my team is the steelers and i love playing with kids making them happy,i love swiming fishing...and i don't smoke...

I love reading, cooking,swiming,playing with kids..