Hi Welcome to the site & forum, yes this is a positive area and I understand what you mean about family being able and not understanding. I get annoyed at talking to certain family members and they poo pooing my disabilities I come away seething. Back to positivity I'm a cat lover I have two sweeties and they are a handful I don't know how you cope with four!! I would love to see pictures of them you must post on Pets section, you will see pictures of my two Arnie & Willow. Welcome again and hope you enjoy the site.