Looking back to the start of this thread unemployment is a most usually caused by ignorance on the part of potential employers rather than illness/disability. Poorly achieved education tends to be a major contributing and limiting factor for those whose schooldays were interrupted. During my time in special schools underachievement was assumed by those teaching.
As to sex, or its absence, this varies with the severity of the disability or illness and the individual's self-confidence and ingenuity. Sometime we are compelled to jettison acquired ethics and explore the possibilities. I wont go further as I may be accused of vulgarity.
Marriage, for what its worth, is available to any couple though not easily attained in a number of cases I admit. Offspring may or may not be in question but that is a matter between the marriage partners. I have been married and divorced twice and have a son and a daughter.
A normal life is vastly overrated, normalcy often equates to a stultifying lack of imagination. Striving to be as much of an individual as possible while avoiding becoming a bloody nuisance to others is more likely to lead to joy.
I have been lucky and I admit that too; I never wanted to ape anyone, wanting only the freedom to be myself.
