Disabled Aides and Sexuality

Hello Everyone newbie here. i have been in an online relation with a quad since April 3. at first we could chat and phone a lot but then he told me he can't because his aide does not believe in any sex talk. my bf sustained his injury at age 17 he is now 44. he misses sexual contact of any kind and i love making him feel sexy. but now she seems to sense whay we are doing ( or goes on his laptop when he is asleep. )
i think this is so horrible! i want to do an article on this and how wide spread it is. if anyone would like to tell me your experiences of this good or bad i would love to know, of course total anonymity will be observed. thanks in advance
Peace!

Hi my ex online gf had a really supportive aide so i think its just your mans one he has rights so he needs to get a new aide

it'a more complex. he has been with her for nineteen years. we are still going to chat and talk i now know i will just had to get it on his schedule which i don't mind. but i do believe that ALL aides and such
should made aware that even disabled people have sexual needs and should be supportive and helpful when it comes to that.

exactly my point i hope things go weel for you both