Hello to all

Hi, I am Matt, I am a disabled chap with gigantolondiniumeyetis. I love in (mostly) sunny Devon and just do my thing. I have been divorced for around 2 years now, and I guess I have been on the look out for a special person, however, until recently I was on pof.com and quite frankly being honest in a 'norm' world is like committing suicide in public. I found all the women who 'just want an open and honest man with a good sense of humour who will love me for who I am...' to be utterly discriminatory also. So, I decided to look for pen pals and people who have experienced some of the hazards of norm dating and all its occasionally amusing episodes. I know it can happen for us crips!

I am also a daddy to two 5 year olds, who it has to be said, saved me after the their mother walked out and took them away. Hilariously she refused me to have my children stay overnight with me, on my own - due to me having a disability! So, I was disabled at the age of 7 years, she married me, chose to have children with me, then when things get tough and walks away she then uses the crip card. Typical normals.

But, that was then, since kicking her butt in court I now co-parent my little ones and have weekly overnight stays.

I keep myself pretty much to myself when I don't have the children home.

I am a professional person, on a career break after some medical issues, however I have always worked where possible. Since leaving uni I have worked some real shitty jobs including call centre work, and more recently working in psychological services and the criminal justice system.

So, that is pretty much me. I hope everyone is well and getting there.

Hi Matt, welcome to our 'little' :lol: group, we have members from all sorts of countries with all sorts of disabilities so you will fit with us fine. I hope you will have fun!

Welcome Matt I am the mad hatter so if you are a little barmy you will love it here

Hi and welcome Matt

Hi Matt

Welcome to Able Here gang

Karl

MattMercy wrote: Hi, I am Matt, I am a disabled chap with gigantolondiniumeyetis. I love in (mostly) sunny Devon and just do my thing. I have been divorced for around 2 years now, and I guess I have been on the look out for a special person, however, until recently I was on pof.com and quite frankly being honest in a 'norm' world is like committing suicide in public. I found all the women who 'just want an open and honest man with a good sense of humour who will love me for who I am...' to be utterly discriminatory also. So, I decided to look for pen pals and people who have experienced some of the hazards of norm dating and all its occasionally amusing episodes. I know it can happen for us crips!

I am also a daddy to two 5 year olds, who it has to be said, saved me after the their mother walked out and took them away. Hilariously she refused me to have my children stay overnight with me, on my own - due to me having a disability! So, I was disabled at the age of 7 years, she married me, chose to have children with me, then when things get tough and walks away she then uses the crip card. Typical normals.

But, that was then, since kicking her butt in court I now co-parent my little ones and have weekly overnight stays.

I keep myself pretty much to myself when I don't have the children home.

I am a professional person, on a career break after some medical issues, however I have always worked where possible. Since leaving uni I have worked some real shitty jobs including call centre work, and more recently working in psychological services and the criminal justice system.

So, that is pretty much me. I hope everyone is well and getting there.

I tried POF for a short while but found they were mostly perverts, you will find your special person who see the man and not the disability.