My space -room ..for feelings

No Ducky...think its your pride that drives us on....or just blind stubborness xxxxxx

this site is great.. I truly hope the members will make it fantastic..karl deserves it for starting it up and giving us a new chatroom.. only by us all joining in and getting to know each other better will it work.. we are here because we want to be part of a site where we know ppl will understand some of the proplems and feelings we have..so hello to all the members I have not had a chance to meet..

I second that :lol:

the one thing about a small site is that you can talk about how you feel ,sad, happy, unsure, pain, joy or if you need help. I have found myself telling friends on the site things I have supressed and joined in debates.. I am not judged or told dont be stupid..i am not made to feel inferer. i am excepted for what I am. thank you all members

You are a lovely lady you deserve respect.:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:

We are just one big cyber space family

Correct my friend,we care thats what counts.

I am getting better on compt and internet..Have learnt about tabs.. I can now do it without knocking myself off the site and having to sign in again ..I often wondered how ppl can be online here and still able to do other things elsewhere..

Not only am I on my laptop..But Im juggling and playing the piano as well xxxxx;) :whistle: :blink:

tonypark wrote:

Not only am I on my laptop..But Im juggling and playing the piano as well xxxxx;) :whistle: :blink:

a man of many talents it seems xxxx :huh: :blink:

ducky wrote:

tonypark wrote:

Not only am I on my laptop..But Im juggling and playing the piano as well xxxxx;) :whistle: :blink:

a man of many talents it seems xxxx :huh: :blink:

Multi-Tasking and Multi-Talented...Ive not told you what Im doing with my tongue either xxxx:whistle: :whistle: :whistle:

somewhat of an odd day guys.

I know before anyone says anything what the right thing is to do say etc ok? My best mate is leaving me behind it would seem. And she is doing this for all the right reasons and a good friend should be so happy for her and the better half of me is delighted really i am. It just seems like the end of an era you know? We met five years ago in a battered wives refuge. (a whole other story not for today ok?) and we have been solid mates ever since. I was there when she went to court and prosecuted that basterd she used to call a husband and she helped me choose my new names when i had to hide my identity. We have been to hell and back and always there no matter what. Well five years down the line she has her own place and a job and has got the whole thing together. And she met a man recently and he moved in and she,s over the moon. And i never see her and she never calls and we just seem to be losing eachother. Maybe im expecting too much here guys i mean i am in a relationship but i always have put nicci and her needs from me tantamount and martin understood why. He new guy is lovely and treats her like a queen but one thing bothers me. Every time i call she is drinking or drunk! Last time i went over she was drunk at the pub. Now i know she has had damn near no social life and her kids are over 12 too. Im being selfish arnt i? I love nicci to bits and im worried im being unfair just cos i miss her so much. I should be made up she has a new guy in her life. Im feeling really torn over this everyone can anyone offer advice? Even if it,s to say be happy for her ya cow??? Cat xxxxxxxxxxxxxx:unsure: