This is an official complaint

A member going by the name adeyadeel has just been excessively rude and abusive to me in chat.

He, she or it has just called me an effing @ss hole only he she or it used the full spelling.

If this is what this forum has come to since I was last here, then I do not want anything to do with it.

It is disgusting.

You can block users from chatting to you.

thats the life and times of being online ... if dont like how they treat then block em .... or grow a set and argue back

I do not need to "grow a set" of anything.

But when I first joined this forum it was never permitted for people to use obscene language and curse other members.

Hence my official complaint.

Had I known that this site would ended up with a chat area where some people are apparently using it as a sex site, a place for them to use obscene language and ask for personal information, basically using it for somewhere to masturbate to, I would never have returned.

I do not think I will be back.

I am disabled but I will not be used as an online sex toy for some pathetic person.

Able_Here_Team wrote: You can block users from chatting to you.

Karl - had I known what this site would have developed into, ie not much more than a sex site, I would never have come back.

It used to be a forum like any other, just that some of us were not as able as others.

Now?

Ding - chat - and someone wants to use obscene words, talk smut, and use this site for self-satisfying masturbation at the expense of the person who answers them, thinking they just want a bit of friendly chat.

Able_Here_Team wrote: You can block users from chatting to you.

Looks like this site has turned into a place where men send chat messages and all they want to do is talk dirty and no doubt use the site for masturbation.

Karl - this is NOT the site I originally joined, and it is NOT the site I expected to come back to.

And I am already fed up with blocking people - in just one day?

Think I should never come back.

I wish you well.

karl like i said in the PM i sent you .... there is no mention of me being disrespectful so i deserve an apology from this person .... PS here is the convosation that i had with this person

hi what is ur disability
Gandrawhy do you want to know?
You: duttonc2225if u are not willing to tell people then no disrespect why do u come on here ? if not willing to open upto people ?
GandraI have been a member here for a VERY long time
You: duttonc2225i am only asking a question
Gandrathere was no chat here when I last came - now all I get are men wanting to chat and talk dirty
Gandrasorry, but I do not like that sort of thing
You: duttonc2225if u think i am just here to get into ur pants then u have another thing coming
Gandrawell as I am old enough to be your mother and live about 5,000km away, you would not stand a chance
GandraGOODBYE and go masturbate to someone else
You: duttonc2225i think you are a very disrespectful woman ...
Gandraooks like
You: duttonc2225if you can not understand when some one is actually being POLITE and nice
You: duttonc2225then you have no reason to be on here
GandraI am disabled therefore I have as much right as anyone
GandraGO ASK KARL

If people are using chat for masturbatory reasons that's sad not awful, they'd find Skype much more suited to their needs!
Seriously, if you don't want to chat and chat is new since you were here before, don't use it, don't respond, ignore or turn it off. I rarely use it myself as the time I have to spend here is limited; I haven't initiated a chat but do occasionally respond if not too busy. Writing is my pleasure but the instant too and fro of chat irritates me.

If you don't like something on TV, you turn it off. So you can do the same with the chat.

Karl wrote: If you don't like something on TV, you turn it off. So you can do the same with the chat.

Accepted. But I do not expect the sort of thingon TV that you obviously accept here with live chat.

This site was a normal site for disabled people when I joined and when I was last here.

Now? It appears to be a sex site.

I do not think I will be back.


Karl - you have turned a friendly site into something which you should be ashamed of.

Enjoy it - just do permit all female members to be used as masturbating tools by the male members you allow to use chat WITH NO MODERATION WHATSOEVER.

gandra i asked you POLITELY HOW YOU WERE ... not how you were feeling in the south pole.... no disrespect but you sound as old as my nan.... so why would i wanna get in to any one that old lol

duttonc2225 wrote: gandra i asked you POLITELY HOW YOU WERE ... not how you were feeling in the south pole.... no disrespect but you sound as old as my No,nan.... so why would i wanna get in to any one that old lol

No - you specifically asked me about what sort of disability I had and you conveniently snipped the parts of the conversation to suit yourself and try to make me feel bad.

And I DID say I was old enough to be your Mother - nothing about your "Nan" [presumably grandmother?] - but you still kept on.

Every time I closed the Chat, BOING, there you were again.

I did not report you, I reported someone else - different name if you had bothered to actually read, so you must have felt VERY guilty to have had to try to justify yourself by contacting Admin.

It is because of you, and others like you, that I will be leaving this site.

How disgusting when a mere newbie causes a long-time member to have to leave.


Thankfully I will not have to as I am NOT coming back here.

The lot of you disgust me.
How Karl permitted this forum to turn into a sex site I will never know.