This is an official complaint

grandra if ur gonna leave then leave... dont let the door handle hit you on the way out .....

I'm sorry you feel the way you obviously do although that is your prerogative and you have every right to your opinion. But, really, the whole lot of us disgust you? Every person here is disgusting to you? Have you had contact with all? Why are you so angry that you feel it appropriate to insult me, the moderators and all the members?
Go to chat options and hit 'turn off chat'.

no disrespect to any one here but one of hte moderators has given me an ultimatum... so i spoke my mind if that moderator wants to kick me off of the site for speaking my mind and STANDING up for my self then so be it

Gandra wrote:

Karl wrote: If you don't like something on TV, you turn it off. So you can do the same with the chat.

Accepted. But I do not expect the sort of thingon TV that you obviously accept here with live chat.

This site was a normal site for disabled people when I joined and when I was last here.

Now? It appears to be a sex site.

I do not think I will be back.


Karl - you have turned a friendly site into something which you should be ashamed of.

Enjoy it - just do permit all female members to be used as masturbating tools by the male members you allow to use chat WITH NO MODERATION WHATSOEVER.

A Normal site for disabled people? What is normal?

A sex site? We only talk about sex on the forum to help each other and why not as we are all adults. We don't have any porn so no way this site is a sex site.

I think she is creating nonsense about this website, we know what is ablehere site,

i'm here since 4yrs, we are all happy with this site,

Karl wrote: A Normal site for disabled people? What is normal?

A sex site? We only talk about sex on the forum to help each other and why not as we are all adults. We don't have any porn so no way this site is a sex site.

The forum, no, but you are running an un-moderated chat section which does not even have a swear filter - and some of the language used is obscene.

I am resigning my membership of this site as it is not what it was when I first joined, over five years ago.

Gandra wrote:

Karl wrote: A Normal site for disabled people? What is normal?

A sex site? We only talk about sex on the forum to help each other and why not as we are all adults. We don't have any porn so no way this site is a sex site.

The forum, no, but you are running an un-moderated chat section which does not even have a swear filter - and some of the language used is obscene.

I am resigning my membership of this site as it is not what it was when I first joined, over five years ago.

It would take a lot of man hours to watch the chat and we are all adults so the chat doesn't need moderating.

I will delete your account today.

hahaha thats good brother....

duttonc2225 wrote: no disrespect to any one here but one of hte moderators has given me an ultimatum... so i spoke my mind if that moderator wants to kick me off of the site for speaking my mind and STANDING up for my self then so be it

I want this on the record, I did not give Dutton an ultimatum! I asked him to watch what he says on the chatroom because of the mix of members on this site . As Karl says we can't moderate the chatroom. So when someone messages me and says a member is using offensive language and asking members personal questions regarding sexual things. I ask them to watch what they are saying in a message. Then inform karl about it. So now this has all been sorted hopefully we can draw a line under it!!