foreigners who keep messaging me

NaomiB wrote: ive also have these types of mesages, men who think i want to find a husband, i actually think they think that able here is a site were disabled people want to find partners/husbands/wife. I think they think becasue yur disabled or something that you wont be already married or totally not interested in them. it actually says onmy proflie that im engaged and still they try and get you to talk to them. its prob a woman on the other end of the pc or a man, which ever, and there on dozens of sites across the world trying to swindle money of you and to befriend you and then prob tell you a sob story of there life and that the men with the guns are after them and they need to get out of the country,"can you help me" is prob there next question. hey, stranger things have happend.

You should report messages who is trying to swindle money or any spam to us. If we don't know about it we can't do anything about it.

You can also block the users from messaging you.

oh goodness not on this site, like ive seen it happen on tv and read abt it happend to women,usually older women,attractive man etc, jus everyone be oon yur guard cuase they can be so nice and poliet and tell you everyting you want to hear. jus a friendly bit of advice.

we do detect spammers before they start emailing people! But if any one should get an message asking for money they should report it straight away to us!

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Yes I,too,have experienced this type of thing on other debating sites and it really does get on my nerves because I know all too well that most of this nonsense is the first step of setting you up for a scam. The people from Nigeria and other African states seem to be experts at it.Just because we have our own disabilities to contend with they like to think we are a soft touch and that we can be buttered up with sob stories and bare faced lies.

I am not as lenient as yourselves as I will most certainly tell them to go and take a sexy walk,,,if you know what I mean. I know it is not nice to swear at folk but these people are after a free ride and want to establish themselves in this country and they often choose disabled people to begin the process. Once they have got here and have robbed you empty they will leave you and go on their way to add to the other miscreants that are flooding into the country on a daily basis.

Just keep your guard up and stick with your own friends and if you did ever choose to verbally chastise someone in the above given method I can assure you that you will not here from them again.

Kind Regards
Henryscat.

We do ban them straight away before they start spamming. However, some of them do slip thru the net. So please report any spammers to us!

Able Here Team

I try to check new members every morning and anyone I feel looks suspicious I do inform Karl of. But some do slip through our net which is where you all come in, if you get approched by someone who you feel is a scammer please contact Karl.