Being single

your right gary married 3 times was very lonely. worse time in my life.loving being single.

well a bigger bummer is being widowed - i was a dedicated singleton till i met the woman of my dreams and then lost her to cancer after only 4.5 years - so now am \"single \" again and hating every Minuit of it - add to that being older and disabled and social life is somewhat non existent - and so called friends .............. phaaaaaaa

so if you have some one or even some real friends - treasure them - for they are worth more than all the riches of the world

Brett .

You all have good points but I 100% agree with karl.

I've been single after a very bad thing happen to any one. So I might I've seen one guy since then but being single isn't to back til you meet rhe right guy. I just don't know if I'll ever meet that guy again!

even tho ive got 24hr support i still feel lonely esp wen i went to my sisters 4 xmas where there was my sister and hubby and mum and dad im the odd one out
lucybell

I ended a very flawed marriage 18 months ago. I am not generally lonely and am quite happy with my life. BUT I enjoy theater and that is not something to do alone. I also would like to get dressed up and go out for a special meal. Being honest I also miss that special time once the children have gone to bed and sharing a cuddle or little bits of news from the day.

I would like a special person in my life but I now enjoy my independence and self reliance so much I doubt I want a live in partner again.