Being single

I hope being single isn't as bad as it was when I was younger because it pretty much looks like my husband and I will be separating after the whole Holiday thing is done. I can't live with a guy who has only wanted to be friends for the last decade. Just can't do it any more.

Jana wrote: I hope being single isn't as bad as it was when I was younger because it pretty much looks like my husband and I will be separating after the whole Holiday thing is done. I can't live with a guy who has only wanted to be friends for the last decade. Just can't do it any more.

Awww I am sorry, how long have you been married?

Thanks, Karl. It has been 32 years. Our 2 daughters are grown and living on their own.

My god, I thought you was about 45! You are looking good for your age.

Are you looking forward to living on your own?

I'll be turning 55 in February. But like most Americans, I'm a bit overweight. (I think the fat fills out the wrinkles). Anyway, I have mixed feelings about living alone. I'm scared and relieved at the same time. As it is, most of the things I love in life I end up doing alone anyway.

You look awesome, Jana. Being single is not so bad after all. I've been single for the last 12 years. It takes a while to get used to it. Like any change it may seem a bit daunting but you're a strong lady.

Well, it has been a month since I posted here. Nothing has changed. We are still in the same house. I sort of feel like and old sock he's trying to decide whether he wants to keep or not.

My fibro is through the roof. I think I'll just crawl into bed today and not deal with anything.

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I am lonely a lot of the time, and I am married. Not meaning that my husband and myself aren't happy, we are. But, it is the sense of isolation as friends get fed up when you are in pain and not able to meet up with them. Also eating out and going to the cinema is practically out of it, as I find it hard to be comfortable.
I agree that loneliness can come in many forms, it's great that we are talking about it. x

I have been liveing with my mother for 6 years tis winter and I just turned 48 and single haveing a tough time getting a date.I have been engaged but just never worked out for me.I movec to my moms house because sshe got sick and I helped her ut along the way up until she got sick a 2nd time.She just passed away 1 @ 1/2 years ago.I am liveing alone now and do not have animals any more either.I am looking for someone to be able to spend time with mabe more.There are single woman around here but hard to find the right one most of them do not reply back that live not far from me.ihave never been married and had not havea date for awhile either.

We do have our own dating site called 'Disabled Partners' that is still in infancy but a good place to start there are a few disabled dating sites about you just have to look. I think this is a good idea as disabled people need love as much as able bodied people. Also able bodied dating sites do have disabled people on them but I don't know the ratio of able bodied people looking for disabled partners. But finding your soul mate can happen anywhere in the supermarket or like I found my husband on a blind date sometimes it happens when you least expect it. I'm a big romantic and believe these someone for everyone so don't ever give up.

I would like to meet a partner someday who I can share my time with.