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Sex For ... 5 years 5 months ago #53958

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Thank you for your response, Tomrymer. I just felt I needed to get it out there. I figured there have to be other people out there like me. In no way do I consider your response out of line. You put my feelings into words, exactly.
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Sex For ... 5 years 5 months ago #53971

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I didn't realise this. I thought sex took away the pain but having sex knowing you will be in a lot more pain for days. This is defo catch 22!!! Im assuming its too much movement for you...

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Sex For ... 5 years 5 months ago #54024

I really feel that sex is an integral part of who we are as people....only society dictates a given ideology about the inapropriateness of such a bbeautiful and natural form of self expression...of course there are some people who ruin tthe overall place in society sex has...making it dark and hhorrible...

For those with challenges there is a definite sense of insecurity...a snse of am I a sexual being...can anyone really like me enouugh to participate in sexual activities....?

TThe decision how you as a person desire to see yourself or desire society to see you is very much yyour decision.

The interesting thing for me is that sex alone iis not what I want in my life...without the emotional connection I feel it is an empty act....but having said that it is an important journney to comprehend and as people we

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Sex For ... 5 years 5 months ago #54025

We owe it to ourselves to get the most out of life we can....

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Sex For ... 5 years 5 months ago #54040

As empty acts go sex is the best! I also love the phrase 'casual sex' I find it amusing because sex is the only thing I've never been casual about!?!
One of Byron's mistresses ate an apple during the act and asked him if he'd finished (when he hadn't) that's casual.
Seriously, without emotion one is merely 'having sex' with emotion making love. In the book which I've just finished writing sex plays a big part as it has in my life. One thing I can say is that I've never had a sexual relationship or even a fling with someone I didn't feel an emotional attachment to in some way.

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Sex For ... 5 years 5 months ago #54044

Indeed.....sex is very empowering for an individual and I believe it should be accepted more readily as part of who we are rather than an extra add on to our lives.

I think though for those who have difficulty getting themselves into a relastionship where sex becomes part of the self is more the issue.
for some it is a matter of attempting to experience the joys of the flesh to relieve the buden and doubt of social isolation.

II think society teends to say that because your challenged you should not have the simple pleasures of the flesh....

WWe all need to be aware of our self of our own limitations and extensions....I do not put any on mnyself aand even though I had a mental concepot aas to how far I would ever go as a person I amm now happy to say I have pretty much done it all and gone way beyond my expectations .

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Sex For ... 5 years 4 months ago #54075

Well done and well said! My continuing emphasis, by now probably boring, is that forgetting, must, ought and should and doing what we can is most important.

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Sex For ... 4 years 6 months ago #57467

An interesting topic.
When I lost the use of my legs just over two years ago, I also lost the ability to have a decent erection. Of the two problems, my lack of erection has hit me the hardest. Whatever the damage to my spine was, that caused my partial paraplegia, one spin off was that certain areas of my body became more sensitive and the desire for sex became more keen.
So sex is an important part of my now disabled life. At the same time being more enjoyable but also more difficult to bring to a concluding orgasm.
One thing is sure, being disabled does not mean your sexual needs are any different from the able community.

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Sex For ... 4 years 6 months ago #57507

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Dongledave wrote: An interesting topic.
When I lost the use of my legs just over two years ago, I also lost the ability to have a decent erection. Of the two problems, my lack of erection has hit me the hardest. Whatever the damage to my spine was, that caused my partial paraplegia, one spin off was that certain areas of my body became more sensitive and the desire for sex became more keen.
So sex is an important part of my now disabled life. At the same time being more enjoyable but also more difficult to bring to a concluding orgasm.
One thing is sure, being disabled does not mean your sexual needs are any different from the able community.


Do you use Viagra?

there's a lot more to having sex than penetration. It's more about making love than the actual sex part of it.

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Sex For ... 4 years 5 months ago #57566

HI

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Sex For ... 4 years 5 months ago #57569

Hi to you! What do you have to say on the subject?

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Sex For ... 4 years 5 months ago #57570

Very well said....making love is the full story...making love is beautiful...far more so than sex alone...

I think in many ways sex is a thing that validates us as humans but more so as humans with a given physical or sensory challenge...

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